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The astrology of relationships

• January 15, 2017
• By:Rita Condon
• Comments:3

In love, we tend to make decisions based on “The heart wants what the heart wants” right? But what about the more important question, “Why does the heart want what it wants?” In the Astrology biz that’s what we call Synastry, or a comparison between two people’s charts.

There’s a lot of Astrological-love-match information out there (and it all deserves its day in the sun), but I only want to address one conundrum today: Why does the heart want a guy or lady way older than them? What about those love relationships with crazy age gaps?

In Synastry, you can see why certain people do better when they date outside of their “peer age group”, and thrive with those a few years younger or older. This is not an attraction to those you should not be attracted to, this is about two adults falling for each other, without regard for age. For these people, they have to face their generational lessons at first, and date in their age group until they are of age, to not to make it look weird. So I don’t think it is wise to ask someone to skip dating altogether, but it might shed some light on why your relationships are just way too explosive, chaotic, delusional, crazy and uneasy. It might also explain why it’s not strange for people to date outside their generation and actually be amazing.